Judges 14:3 His parents said to him, "Isn't there a woman among the girls in the neighborhood of our people? Do you have to go get a wife from the uncircumcised Philistines?" But Samson said to his father, "Get her for me. She's the one I want—she's the right one."...
----- Here Samson chosen by God to be a judge , a mighty man of valour. God's man who would bring mighty deliverance for the people, chose the wrong woman. You know one of the most important decisions you will make is who you marry. Samson was smitten by this girl. But he was smitten by looks only. It goes onto say in verse seven:' In Samson's eyes, she was the one.' Unfortunately it was in Samson's eyes.(not God's) You can fancy someone, even get on with them and yet it can be you miss God's best. You can be convinced that she or he is 'the one' but if it's just in your eyes you can make a big mistake. (It can be a soul thing) This process seemed to repeat for Samson. Save yourself some pain,don't let it repeat for you. I have seen many people men and women who end up taken out of their call,or being close to God because they felt he or she were 'the one.' (Slept with them before marriage), got a soul tie, and ended up shipwrecked in their Christian journey.It all ends in tears. The danger is then the cycle repeats . In their eyes they fancy someone else, talk to them, sleep with them and hey presto go round in circles . (these are Christians I'm talking about) God wants you married he really does. (I'm not sure the whole dating thing is even in the bible) but God wants you married I know that for sure, its His idea. You don't need a boyfriend: you need a husband. You don't need a girlfriend: you need a wife. But He wants you to marry someone, but not just anyone; someone that loves Him. Someone not only attractive in your eyes but someone attractive in His. Trust that God has the right person for you. Never sell out for just looks only. Never just go with your heart; you cant trust it. Include God in your decisions, for He has the very best for you. Your the one that I want ooh ooh ooh.. but are they the one God wants? Prayer:
Father thank You that You are interested in every area of my life. No good thing will You with old from me. I trust and include You in all my decisions in Jesus Name Amen.